The longevity of women in our society is one of many differences between
men and women that make the study of gender a focus of public policy. Nearly
half of women aged 65 years old or older in 1998 were widowed and 70% of
them lived alone. By 2005, 70% of the nearly 5 million older adults age
85 and over in the U.S. will be women. The majority of this age group will
need assistance in more than one activity of daily living.
In 1990, the leading causes of mortality among U.S. women included infectious
diseases and pregnancy and childbirth. Today, the chronic conditions of
heart disease, cancer, and stoke account for 63% of deaths among women.
Research has shown that physical health is directly related to your mental
health. Knowing all this, it is unfortunate to learn through a national
study completed in 1998 by Brandeis University’s National Center on Women
and Aging, that fewer than half of doctors speak with older female patients
about their emotional health. Yet, 93% of all women surveyed said they would
be comfortable discussing emotional problems such as depression with their
doctor.
Men
In general, men live shorter lives and suffer more from fatal conditions.
It is generally accepted that both biological and psychosocial factors (increased
smoking, greater alcohol consumption, and predisposition to risky and violent
behavior) are involved in explaining the differentials in life expectancy.
The losses associated with aging can quickly erode men’s sense of well-being
and can lead to withdrawal, anger, and depression.
The aging process can be difficult for both genders, but research has
shown that men generally have a harder time adjusting to the changes. Conditioned
throughout their lives to be strong and independent, men can be devastated
by the losses associated with aging. One of the biggest challenges men face
with growing old is no longer being gainfully employed.
One of the most frightening statistics involves suicide rates for elderly
men. While suicide rates for women have been stable over the last 20 years,
among men they have increased rapidly. Overall, men commit suicide at four
times the rate of women. Approximately 25,000 men take their own lives each
year.